Welcome to Empower with Avantika

Your Journey in Healing and Empowerment Begins Here...

Meet your guide Avantika

Empowerment Coach, Intuitive Reader and a Reiki Healer

Born in India, I grew up in England, and now I'm embracing life in the dynamic city of Berlin as a Holistic empowerment coach. My story is a blend of my Indian roots, the influences of my English upbringing, and the exciting experiences that Berlin brings to my journey.

I am a multi-passionate person, which is reflected in what I do. I have worked in STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Maths) career for the last 7 years, in industry and in academia, whilst also coaching people in self-defense, various holistic and self-reflection techniques to be their assertive and empowered self. I have been through the journey of self-discovery and deep healing (still going!), and it is NOT easy!

Through my coaching program, intuitive readings and reiki sessions, I bring you the guidance from the universe that maybe the very thing you need to feel unstuck in your journey.

full story here...

My sessions/coaching are for you if:

You are a high achieving person, with big goals in life, but you feel exhausted by doing so much.

You want to be seen, heard and recognised at your work, relationship or friendships, but whenever you try to, you feel blocked either by yourself or others.

You feel overthinking, anxious repetitive thoughts actually make up the majority of your day. You know you want to slow down but you feel like you can't.

You freeze in a situation where someone challenges you but you can only think of a response later on. Then majority of your thoughts shift towards what perfect response you would have given in that moment and then you become unproductive, perpetuating the cycle of feeling exhausted but not getting much done.

You are feeling lost.

You have frequent pain in your body but whenever you have done various medical tests or seen multiple doctors everything comes up as normal.

You feel that your mind runs your body and not your soul.

You find that you are hypersensitive and/or anxious at work.

You are looking to feel more at peace and relaxed in your body.

You feel indecisive and like you are not sure whether you are making the right decision and do not know how to trust your decisions.

You find that your mind feels cluttered and you are not sure how to even begin to organise it, with the amount of responsibilities you have.

I empathise with you....I have been there too. It is through investing in myself that I have learnt how to live a life that is peaceful, learnt to be assertive and make decisions that feel in alignment. It is through making the decision to invest in my spiritual growth and my health that now I have the tools under my belt that have equipped me for any overwhelming scenarios.

I share these lessons and give you guidance from the universe through my readings and the healing sessions so that you can feel FREE in your body too and let go of the CONTROL through your mind.

My Services

1:1 Coaching
(8-week program)

1:1 Reiki
(distance or in-person)

1:1 Tarot Readings
(online or in-person)

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8-week 1:1 Coaching Program for women in STEM intake is now open!

If you have landed here it is most likely that you are a woman working in a STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Maths) job and feeling like you are stuck where you are.

Most likely, you got excellent grades at school and went to great universities, you are highly intelligent and ambitious and have a great career (at least on the outside) but...you don't seem to be getting the rewards for having done everything "right". You were told if you followed the system and just "worked hard and long hours", then you will be compensated well, progress in your career and have your dream house...but somehow you are finding that you are BURNT OUT, doing everything your boss asks you to do, to a high-level and not to mention with PERFECT quality but then why do you feel unrecognised and unappreciated, passed up for promotion and feeling behind in life. Sounds familiar?

I have been there. The good news is I can help you.

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What is Reiki and what is a Tarot Reading ?

I asked these exact questions at the beginning of my journey too (3 years ago!)

Reiki is a Japanese healing technique, which works on the principle of channelling energy from the universe and into the patient. The therapist allows for the energy to flow through your body, with no contact on your body, to activate your natural healing process and to facilitate physical and emotional well-being. If you find that meditation does not really work for you in terms of relaxation, reiki can be a great start to facilitate this!

Tarot cards are an extremely powerful divination tool for personal growth, identifying subconscious blocks and self-discovery, particularly when you feel like you don't have full guidance or answers in taking the next steps forward. For some people it is often a way of connecting to their higher self or the universe in order to receive the divine guidance. Often after a reading, one can lead to an immense clarity and propel you forward in taking your next action steps.

A combination of Reiki and Tarot can be extremely powerful and a magical experience! I offer a combination package of Reiki and Tarot together which offers a more comprehensive and more nuanced healing experience.

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What My Clients Say About My Work

"I enjoyed the tarot reading with Avantika very much. It revealed appropriate themes and questions for me and reminded me to pay even more attention to certain areas and side of my life. Avantika leads through the reading intuitively and at the same time in a structured way. She has a warm, positive aura and you can tell that she loves what she does. I can recommend a session with her 100%."

"I found the session really insightful and clarifying. Avi’s guidance through the reading was warm and friendly whilst being informative. She really helped me to navigate some of the topics and areas within my own life that I want to focus on."

“This was my first time having face to face reiki with Avi and it was amazing! I felt really relaxed and calm not only with the session but also because of her calm and lovely aura! after the session she explained to me which of my chakras are unbalances, why they might be unbalanced and suggested strategies on how I could dance them: On top of that she did my Tarot card tarot reading also which really helped answer the questions I was seeking for! I would definitely recommend Avi!”

"My session with Avantika was extremely soulful. Her voice is soothing and she took the time to explain the spiritual aspects of the process to me. I felt completely refreshed and cleansed after the reiki. I feel like the reiki is more powerful coming from someone who has a pure and empathetic heart. 10/10 would recommend."

“I received a distance and remote Reiki treatment from Avantika. The communication before the session was really helpful, and I felt well prepared. During the treatment, I went into a deeply relaxed state, and fell into a deep healing sleep state for a few hours following the session. This really helped me to clear and overcome some health issues I had been dealing with, and also to regenerate and refresh my energy. I really recommend trying a session with Avantika!”

"It was an amazing reading for me, both enlightening and spiritually fulfilling! while doing a reading, she mostly focuses on the coaching aspect and it really gives a clear vision about your past and future. she draws parallels with the cards and different stages and people in my life and with the help her guidance, i left this reading with a feeling of full bliss and hope about my career and personal life. I highly recommend a reading session with her"

My clients often ask, “What if I lose certain people currently in my life after going through deep transformation?” Not going to sugarcoat things, this will happen. When I decided to prioritise my spiritual path, I did loose certain friendship groups. In fact I changed careers which meant I no longer resonated with a lot of people from my past. You can choose to focus on that or you can choose to focus on the people who you will gain as a result of your transformation. 💕

The more I embraced my authentic self, the more aligned connections I gained. The journey opened the door to deep, soul-level friendships. Whilst transformation is about shedding layers of your conditioning, it’s also about creating space for the right people to enter your life. And not everyone is lost forever. Some people from your past may grow alongside you and reconnect in new and more fulfilling ways.

If you are on the spiritual journey i.e. growth focused and you choose to face your limiting beliefs, patterns you often do loose people but you also gain incredible people and sometimes people from the past join you too. 💫👯

Stepping into your transformation may feel scary, but it’s often the very thing that brings you exactly what you are looking for. If you are feeling the call and ready to create your transformation in 2025, my 1:1 mentorship intake is now open! Whilst you can choose to do it alone but through the mentorship, I make the process seamless for you and you get guidance through every step of the way. Send me a dm 🩷💚✨

Savouring the slow life 💫✨

It is by slowing down that I get my ideas.
It is by slowing down I got to realise I have the exact life of freedom I wanted.
It is by slowing down that I realised that there is no need to rush or compare with others. Everything is getting done.

As someone who used to value doing a lot with achieving, learning to truly rest was a challenge for me. I truly had to learn to let go of control and as an eldest/parentified daughter I had to learn that I can choose to let go of perfectionism. Now that my nervous system feels safe in the state of rest, I wouldn’t want it any other way. I trust the universe and my spirit team completely. I trust my intuition. I trust that I am always taken care of.

“So slow life is not a race, be gentle with yourself, reduce your pace.” 💕

✨ Tell me you’re a Sagittarius without telling me you’re a Sagittarius... 🎢 🏹

Today I turn 31, but there’s something in this photo that hasn’t changed a bit. Here I’m about 6 or 7, fearlessly hopping on a ride I was definitely too small for Seriously, how did they let me on?!!

As a child, I wanted to be an astronaut. I’d stare at the stars and sky in awe, dreaming of exploring the unknown. That love for adventure and wonder fuelled my curiosity and sparked a lifelong passion for travel and daring experiences.

Looking back, that same fearless spirit has shaped so much of my adult life, whether it was moving to a new country or deciding to have a hard conversation at work!

If you’re unsure about your next step, take a little trip down memory lane. Have a look through your childhood photos or ask your family:
 ✨ Who did you dream of becoming as a child? ✨ How can you bring a little of that magic back into your life now?

Sagittarius people are made for this kind of energy—optimistic, bold, adventurous, and social to the core! Speaking of which, what are your big 3?

Mine are -  ☀️ Sun: Sagittarius
🌙 Moon: Taurus
⬆️ Rising: Cancer

✨ Breaking the people-pleasing cycle is the biggest gift you can give yourself.

It starts with recognising these patterns at work, in relationships, or with family.

True freedom comes from deeply knowing yourself and living in alignment with your vision. This is the journey I guide my clients through: ambitious women who know their people-pleasing patterns are the last thing standing between them and their freedom.

If you feel the call to:
💥 Break-free from the old conditioning
💥 Step into the REAL you
💥 Transform your life so that you can have what you truly want

DM me “Break-Free.” Let’s start your journey. 💌

My purpose was not found by simply one day waking up knowing what I am meant to do, it was actually quite a messy process!!

It involved twists and turns, looking at my past patterns and really getting curious about whether what I was currently doing was really what I wanted or whether it was the message and my programming from the society, my environment and culture?

There is a lot of pressure in this question itself, which is why I recommend you to break it down to smaller steps. Well, I have broken it down for you so you don’t have to! Here are 5 steps to follow in finding your purpose:

✨ What are you drawn to in your spare time?
✨ What makes you angry or frustrated?
✨ Shift your focus from what looks impressive to what do I truly want?
✨Get curious about you: what are you good at and what are you not good at? - Get a coach!!
✨ Shifting the focus from “ME” to “How can I be of service to others through my gifts and talents?”

This is exactly what I help my clients with: breaking down their old conditioning into BOLDLY owning their authentic self - which is the path in getting to know what you truly want. The result of this is living a life that is one of freedom, on your own terms and really utilising the skills that you are good at rather than trying to be like someone else. 🧚

If I hadn’t followed my intuition and taken that leap, I wouldn’t have found my mission to empower other women. I wouldn’t have learned about @teamprettydeadly and become a certified self-defence instructor 👊. I wouldn’t have met the incredible people who are now my lifelong friends. I wouldn’t have discovered Reiki and Tarot either and now my business is based on those services! 🔮 And learning a new language? I went from barely speaking German 🇩🇪 to holding meetings and leading workshops in the language for teenagers, university students and refugees in Germany, which was truly rewarding.

My life in just three short years: Completely unrecognisable. 💫

The more I trusted the Universe, the more it showed up for me. We are always protected and taken care of—even when it doesn’t feel like it.

Taking that leap of faith and moving abroad was the best decision I have ever made.

If you’re in your own rock bottom moment right now or tinkering with the idea of following your intuition towards a new path, know this: It’s the beginning of something new 🌱. You may not see it yet, but trust me, it’s on its way, and it might just blow your mind!

Ask yourself:

1️⃣ What will I lose if I move on?

2️⃣ What will I gain if I move on?

3️⃣ What’s my next best step?
(Ask after meditation or a nature walk!)

4️⃣ If things don’t work out, I always have…

5️⃣ What have I been gravitating toward this past month?

The first step may feel scary, but it’s often the one that changes your life. If you are ready to take the leap, this is something I help my clients through my 1:1 coaching, to make the process seamless and with guidance through every step of the way. Send me a dm 🩷💚✨

As I sat in a cozy café with my hot chocolate, scrolling through photos from the past few months (yes, I have thousands to organise!), it hit me—so much has already happened in such a short time. I’ve been so focused on what’s next — creating, planning, and setting intentions for the weeks and months ahead — that I almost missed the fact that I’m already living the life I once dreamt of.

Today, my heart is full of gratitude—immense gratitude. Reflecting on the travels, the beautiful souls I’ve connected with, precious moments with family, time immersed in nature, and even the unplanned detours the universe sent my way, I see how all of it has shaped this moment. And I can’t help but recognize how much spiritual growth I’ve experienced along the way.

If you’ve been feeling behind or rushing to manifest your next chapter, pause for a moment. Look back and truly appreciate how far you’ve come. You’re already on the right path. 💫

Someone recently asked me: “How do you have a purpose-driven business, travel, maintain a fitness routine, and still make time for family and friends?”

For the longest time, I was just doing “busy” work. Ever notice in your role how only certain moments in your day or week feel like you’re actually moving the needle—like sending that one focused email or making a quick call instead of crafting the “perfect” message?

As an ex-engineer, I loved simplifying processes. My mantra was, “How efficiently can I get results?” I even created AI codes to make things easier!

But here’s the thing: you don’t need complex systems to get unstuck. Often, it’s our patterns that slow us down.

❌ Crafting endless emails instead of picking up the phone? Perfectionism.
❌ Saying yes to too many tasks to prove your worth? That’s imposter syndrome.
❌ Agreeing to work on things you don’t want to, just to please others? That’s people pleasing.
❌ Putting off writing that book, waiting for the “right moment”? that’s your fear of failure

Life doesn’t have to be hard. That is why you feel burnt out not because you HAVE a lot to do but because you CHOOSE a lot to do.

The people-pleasing, overthinking, and imposter syndrome? These are patterns formed in childhood. They aren’t your fault, but now you have a choice. You can choose to work on your outdated patterns and limiting beliefs and get closer to your dream lifestyle OR another month can go by just being busy.

This is the gap between you and your dream, freedom based life. This is what I help my clients with in my 1:1 mentorship. If this resonates, send me a DM.

How does Imposter Syndrome come up in high-achievers? (Story time!!)

Years ago, I presented my research topic at a conference in the south of France amongst world experts in my field. Leading up to my presentation, I was REALLY stressed. I was presenting on the last day, after watching many fantastic presentations. I’d rehearsed endlessly, preparing for every question possible. But when I finished…..no one asked any.

I spiraled, thinking, “Was I not good or interesting enough? Have others done better?”

Only later did I realise that this was just an ASSUMPTION—there was no actual evidence for all my spiralling thoughts. My mind, guided by old beliefs, had created this doubt.

These thoughts consume so much mental space and energy—not to mention the recovery needed afterward from the stress they put on your nervous system. Nerves before presenting are normal, but constant self-doubt and overworking to “prove” ourselves are exactly what lead to burnout.

The very fact that I was in a room full of experts, one of the few women (and one of the youngest) was evidence enough that I was doing pretty darn well! So why did I and many other women like me feel like an imposter?

That has to do with your cultural and environmental experience as a child. You were expected to be perfect - so you developed (VERY) high standards of yourself, you were never validated for your work and when you were you brushed it off, maybe you felt you need to work HARD to get what you want and yet it came to YOU easier than others so you didn't feel worthy of it... either way it's got to do with your mindset and beliefs.

But that doesn’t have to be your reality anymore. I am here to tell you:

YOU are meant for your success. YOU are not an imposter. You earnt your spot. You deserve the best life (without stressing). You are so worthy. Let go of your false assumptions, because they are the one thing that is holding you back. ✨

#impostersyndrome #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

In my previous 9-5 role, I often found myself dreaming of something different—a life of freedom, filled with travel, flexibility, and connections with inspiring people. Although the work I was doing was valuable, I knew deep down that I was meant for more than just the confines of a desk. Today, I’m beyond grateful to live the life I once only dreamt about—a life I’ve intentionally crafted around freedom, fulfilment, and purpose.

The key to this transformation wasn’t working harder; it was breaking free from “good girl” conditioning. This conditioning—a pattern of people-pleasing that many women pick up in childhood—keeps us small, compliant, and afraid of rocking the boat. I felt its grip, and I knew I wanted out. But liberation didn’t happen overnight.

There is a false belief that you have to work HARD and hustle to get the life of your dreams. I disagree.

You just have to get REALLY uncomfortable to build a life of your dreams. This means:

🩷 Facing your hidden parts—the parts you may not always like or are afraid to show others.
💚 Voicing your opinions confidently, even if they go against the grain.
🩷 Setting firm boundaries with those around you (and with yourself).
💚 Choosing not to care about others’ judgments, even when you feel cringy.
🩷 Saying “no” when you mean it, rather than sacrificing yourself to please others.
💚 Taking leaps of faith and trusting your intuition, even when it feels uncomfortable.
🩷 Recognising and breaking toxic patterns that keep you stuck.
💚 Refusing to overextend yourself just to “prove” your worth.

And this work IS hard, but it’s the way.

True freedom comes from deeply knowing yourself and living in alignment with your vision. This is the journey I guide my clients through: ambitious women who know their people-pleasing patterns are the last thing standing between them and their freedom.

If you’re ready to shed those old patterns and live on your terms, DM me to learn more. ✨

Masculine Vs. Feminine Energy

The path that brought you success in your career won’t necessarily bring you the relationship you desire.

In dating, if you lead with your accomplishments and try to “sell” your life story, a confident, secure partner might quickly lose interest.

Whilst your intentions are genuine, the belief that you must GIVE to be WORTHY is rooted in fear and runs deep in your subconscious.

You’ve lived by this mindset, “Working hard will get you results.” And this is true for our masculine world we live in.

It’s been incredibly effective in your career and has helped you push through tough times and build a good life up until now.

However, if you want to attract a partner this strategy won’t work. With a strong, secure partner, you don’t have to take the lead or give excessively.

Start working on your worthiness and ALLOW yourself to be in your feminine energy.

If you want help in breaking these patterns, in my 1:1 Mentorship we dive deep into you and work on your belief systems to up-level them, so that you can attract what you are wanting. Send me a dm, to find out more.

#masculineenergy #feminineenergy #feminineandmasculine #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

Before I decided to start my YouTube channel, I needed to have a plan, the colour scheme, the right thumbnails and the list goes on. This perfectionism led me to delay even making a video. But plans are a waste of time unless acted upon.

I kept telling myself, once I have my camera and microphone I will film. I got those but then I said once I figure out how to use hashtags then I will post. Two months later I still had no video out! Everything was in my head 😅 and taking up time and space.

Perfectionism and analysis paralysis will stope the flow.

And an idea needs to flow. Even if it doesn’t work out.

Iteration and optimisation ♾️

It’s about being 1% better each day. 💫

You are never going to be ready. You just have to take one step.

What do you need to get started on today?

#getstarted #motivationalvideos #noprocrastination #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

If you are wanting clarity in making a decision about whether to leave a situation or stay in a situation this journalling and visualisation prompt can help you:

✅ You decide to leave - what does your life look like a year from now? How does it feel? Write this down

✅ You decide to stay - what does your life look like a year form now? How does it feel? Write this down

✅ Look at them side-by-side.

You don’t need to make a decision right now, but this is valuable information to have!

If you would like a deeper reflection on what lies within your subconscious mind, this where guidance from a tarot reading can be IMMENSELY helpful.

It is not there to tell you what to do but often to guide you through what is taking up space in your mind and ultimately help you reach clarity rather than ruminate about certain situation.

If you feel called to book a session the 30% off (from 111GBP to currently at 77.7GBP) offer ends TONIGHT!!! Send me a dm to book 🩷💚

#dailytarotdraw #weeklytarot #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

When I left my 9-to-5, I felt this immediate lightness, like I was finally free of all the unspoken expectations.

For the first time, I could dress how I wanted, walk how I wanted, and just be me. But looking back, I realise I was waiting for something I didn’t even need—permission to be who I wanted to be.

The truth is, you can give yourself that permission RIGHT now.

Dressing how I want is a huge part of who I am, and being in an environment that kept me from expressing that felt like a betrayal of one of my core values: freedom.

Maybe you grew up with people or have been surrounded by certain friends or ex partner who constantly criticised what you wore—telling you it was “too much” or “not right.”

Over time, those comments became an inner voice, whispering doubts every time you tried to express yourself.

I know that voice well; it held me back for years, even shaping how I dressed and showed up in the world.

Imagine the small power of putting on something you love today, something that makes you feel like you. It doesn’t have to be a big statement—just a step toward reclaiming your voice and style.

Little by little, you’ll find the freedom you’ve been searching for was always yours to claim. So go ahead—wear what makes you feel alive, and let that be your permission to show up as your authentic self, right now.

#authenticity #feminineenergy #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

“How is it happening for everyone else but not for me?!”

Frustrated watching everyone else effortlessly get, what YOU actually are manifesting for yourself?

I have been there before.

I remember, when I was trying to manifest X amount of money into my life but I kept seeing others around me get it. THE EXACT AMOUNT that I wanted to have.

💫 As frustrating as it can be, this is actually a good thing. It means your manifestation is very close and within your reach!

Turn that comparison into admiration 🙏🏽 universe is showing you that it is also possible for you.

Check out these tips above to see what to do next, but if you are unsure what belief system is blocking you, this is where a 1:1 session with can make A BIG difference in unblocking you and let the energy flow through you, so that your long awaited manifestation can FINALLY come to you.

I currently have 30% off of all my 1:1 readings! So if you feel called to book a tarot reading send me a dm 🩷💚

#manifestingtips #gratitude #taketimeoff #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

HALLOWEEN OFFER 🎃🔮: All my readings are currently priced at 30% off! That’s currently 77.7GBP from 111GBP!! 😱😱😱

🔮 My readings are visual guides to your subconscious mind, guidance from the universe, helping you identify and clear emotional blocks and showing you the path forward. Ultimately you always have your free will.

So, if you’re
🔮 facing decision fatigue
🔮 feeling stuck
🔮 navigating the unknown
🔮 struggling with an inner block

🌊 A reading can help you unblock and let the energy flow, so that you can move forward with clarity.

📅 If you feel called to book a reading this is your chance, as the offer at this price ends midnight 3.11.2024!!

Send me a dm to book 🩷💚

#tarotreadings #dailytarotdraw #weeklytarot #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

Midweek motivation: Seems like a lot of people are going through big shifts lately (moving houses, new relationships, new jobs etc).

So if you are going through a big change in your life, you are not alone!

The universe has always got you! 💫

#dailytarotdraw #weeklytarot #tarotcards #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

If you are dealing with a toxic personality in your life, it has to do with a part of you (most likely from childhood) that needs to be healed within you.

These patterns are very much possible to break and reform into healthy ones but it requires you to go within.

If you would like help with breaking these patterns and stepping into a more assertive version of you, reach out to me via dms.

This is exactly what we go through in my 1:1 mentorship, because unpacking these patterns with a coach can truly help you move forward rather than staying stuck.

#breakpatterns #peoplepleasingnomore #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

📖 Bookmark this post so that you can refer back to it

Here is your checklist in order to successfully transition from a 9-5 job to entrepreneurship:

✅ train consistently in your current skill, alongside your current job.

✅ Create space in your schedule for your new skills.

✅ Plan ahead financially - gives you more freedom to pursue your goals.

✅ Take guidance from a mentor or a coach.

It’s not the easy route but it will be the most fulfilling and growth filled route 💫

Doing it alone can be hard, so if you need help with figuring out what to do next, my 1:1 coaching session may just be the push you need. Send me a dm if you feel called to 🩷💚

Ready to make the leap?
START NOW!

#careerchange #leapoffaith #shadowwork #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

Don’t judge a book by its cover |

🍁 Intuitive/ tarot readings are a deep, intuitive practice that combines psychology, spirituality, life coaching, inner work, shadow work, and manifestation techniques to provide you best possible solutions in your life.

🍁 Many readers (at least the impactful ones!) are empaths who have walked through their own darkness and emerged stronger. These are individuals who have faced life’s challenges head-on, learned from them, and now offer invaluable insights to others that resonate on a deep, personal level.

💫 If you’ve never had a tarot reading before… Readings may look like they’re pulled out of thin air, but a great reading isn’t just “for show.” It’s for those ready to create real change in their lives.

🔮 My readings are visual guides to your subconscious mind, helping you identify and clear emotional blocks and showing you the path forward. Ultimately you always have your free will.

So, if you’re
🔮 facing decision fatigue
🔮 feeling stuck
🔮 navigating the unknown
🔮 struggling with an inner block

A reading might be exactly what you need to move forward. And if you feel called to explore this further, just DM me to book a session.

#tarotreadings #dailytarotdraw #weeklytarot #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

And we did it! If you missed it here is our Insta Live replay, where Romana and I talk about how to strengthen your intuition through reiki and tarot 🩷💚

#livereplay #reikimaster #tarot #intuition #empowerment #livechat #spiritualtools #trustyourself #energyhealing

🌳 Going for my gratitude and manifestation walks whilst listening to Abraham Hicks has been a key part of my routine for years.

🧘🏽‍♀️ It keeps me grounded, aligned, and focused on what I want to manifest. Shifting thought patterns 💭 takes consistent effort, especially when working on attracting our desires.

Listening to powerful, resonant content is a great way to raise and maintain your vibration. On certain days, it will be easy easy to slip into your old patterns, especially when the inner critic is loud. But by feeding your mind with uplifting content consistently, you reprogram your subconscious mind to a higher frequency.

🎧 I encourage you to go for a walk, put on a really uplifting audio and see how you feel afterwards!

#abrahamhicks #lawofattraction #reprogramyourmind #mentaldiet #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

✨INSTA LIVE ✨

I’m so excited and honoured to be doing this Instagram Live with Usui Reiki Master (and also my Reiki master!) Romana Cottee! 💫

Romana will share her expertise on Reiki, and I’ll be diving into Tarot and how these powerful tools can help you strengthen your intuition. 🧘‍♀️🔮

Tuning into your intuition can help you make aligned decisions, enhance self-awareness, navigate uncertainty, and trust yourself more. 💡💖

Join us on:
📅 Thursday, 24th October at 1pm (London time) / 2pm (Berlin time)
📝 bring your questions!

Can’t wait to see you all there! 🙌

#reikimaster #tarot #intuition #empowerment #livechat #spiritualtools #trustyourself #energyhealing

7 secrets of successful women 💅 |

I have read countless biographies and books on successful women and here is something that I have found to be common in all of them. By successful, I do not just mean money, we all know it’s much more than that. Here are some of the habits they all have in common:

1. One of their top values is health
2. They find gossip boring
3. They don’t let other’s opinions affect them
4. They don’t stay busy for the sake of staying busy.
5. They reflect learn and move TF on.
6. They protect their precious energy.
7. They pivot when it is time.

What else would you add into the list?

Let me know in the comments below.

#feminineenergy #habitsofsuccessfulpeople #scorpioseason #darkfeminineenergy #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

As, the eldest daughter I learnt to rely on myself. I really thought that maybe this has to do with “hyper-independence” culture and our reluctance to ask for help- check my posts on “eldest daughter syndrome” (30.09). But now I am not sure as so many millennials seem to talk about the reluctance of asking for help 🤔

Where is the “it takes a village mentality” gone?Thoughts?

#millennialproblems #communitybuilding #eldestdaughter #goodgirlconditioning #ittakesavillage

We’ve moved beyond the girl boss era. We hustled, worked hard, and managed everything so well…but what did it lead to? Burnout. Despite our best efforts, we still find ourselves unseen, unheard, and unrecognised.

But there is a solution.

💫 My mission is to empower ambitious women to break free from societal conditioning, reclaim their confidence, and boldly assert their needs and desires.

🦋 3 ways to work with me:

* 1:1 8-week mentorship (GBP 1,111)
* 1:1 90 - minute strategy coaching session (GBP 160)
* 1:1 60 - minute Tarot Reading (GBP 111)

**Packages are also available**

🦋 What makes me unique as a coach?

I blend spiritual tools I’ve learned as a Reiki healer with mindset work, confidence-building, and practical self-empowerment. I help ambitious women, especially in male-dominated spaces, break free from “good girl conditioning.” Together, we focus on reclaiming your voice, setting boundaries without guilt, and showing up unapologetically.

As a certified self-defense instructor and energy healer, I bring a well-rounded approach that combines inner work with real-world confidence.

✨Once YOU start seeing YOU, the rest of the world will too.

If you feel called to create that change, send me a dm. 🩷💚

#getthatbag #salarynegotiation #womeninstem #feminineenergy #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

Midweek Motivation: “When you can’t find someone to follow, you have to find a way to lead by example.”

People who lead unconventional paths often need an unwavering sense of self-belief.

Why? Because there aren’t many examples of people doing exactly what you’re doing. Without external validation—no one handing out grades or saying “good job”—self-doubt will creep in and get louder.

So, how do you measure progress? How do you nurture that self-belief? 📝

You tune in to how you feel at each step. Does it feel exciting, like a full-body “Yes”? If so, that’s a sign you’re on the right track.

And remember, you don’t have to go it alone. Ask the universe for guidance. You are co-creating with a force much greater than yourself. ✨

YOU are paving the way for others. When you’re connected to your intuition, that inner guidance will be your greatest compass. 🧭

#tarotcardspread #dailytarotdraw #weeklytarot #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

Healing our triggers |

Many of us grew up with constant comments on our appearance (and in Asian cultures, it’s next level). We all know that one aunty who just has to mention your weight gain, right? That sinking feeling hits, and suddenly, you’re questioning yourself. 🙃

You often will sit there, smile politely as a response to them, stew in it for days, but complain to all your friends/family about it later—orrrrr you can use this moment as an opportunity to finally stand your ground and say, “Well I am quite happy with my weight, thanks very much!”

It’s not about picking a fight or getting angry, but about standing up for your inner child. These situations aren’t random; your triggers are here to show you where to reclaim your power. If someone criticises you, it’s an opportunity to say, “This is who I am, take it or leave it.”

It takes practice, especially when we’re trained to people-please. But step by step, healing happens, and you grow into your true assertive self. 💅 💫

In my 8-week 1:1 coaching program, we dive into which triggers are holding you back from living freely and fully stepping into your power.

There is nothing more empowering than living a life where you are unbothered by others’ comments and opinions. that’s what I call true confidence.

It’s not about faking it till you make it—it’s about facing it till you make it. If you feel the call to make a change, reach out to me. 💚🩷

#pumpkinpatch #healyourtriggers #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

So here is the deal, I procrastinated a lot in my 20s which often got labelled as laziness when it really wasn’t! 😅😅 My “good girl conditioning” and the “Eldest daughter syndrome” meant that my level of perfectionism was through the roof! After all, I was setting an example on how to do it right and well!

But here is the thing, the perfectionism is keeping you from ACTUALLY getting started. Which ultimately leads to a cycle of:
Procrastinate ——> guilt ——> stress ——> panic

✅ Allow yourself to be messy.

✅Allow yourself to make mistakes.

You don’t have to get it right straightaway. In fact you probably wont.

A writer does not start by writing the perfect chapter. An artist does not start immediately with perfect painting. Someone starting a business does not immediately have the perfect website, products and finances set out.

It is a process.

Start Now!

#eldestdaughtersyndrome #goodgirlconditioning #perfectionismsucks #endprocrastination #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

There is a difference between interest and commitment. When you’re interested in doing something, you do it only when it is convenient. When you are committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results. Commitment to something you care about becomes part of your identity.

This is exactly the difference between wanting to go to the gym and actually going to the gym consistently. Commitment is crucial because it signals a clear intention to yourself, others, and the universe that you are serious about creating a change. It creates focus and dedication. In times when you don’t feel like it, your habit and commitment will carry you and allow you to overcome resistance.

🧘🏽‍♀️ Commitment is what builds momentum.

🧘🏽‍♀️Commitment is what strengthen’s self-belief.

🧘🏽‍♀️ Commitment turns intentions into reality.

🧘🏽‍♀️ Commitment is the foundation that turns desires into achievements.

How do you start to commit to yourself? 💫

Well, have you created the vision of reality you’d love to live? 🪄

Tomorrow Join me for a fun and interactive session where you'll learn how to create a vision board that aligns with your career goals and aspirations.

Whether you're looking to switch careers, climb the corporate ladder, or start your own business, this workshop is perfect for anyone ready to take their career to the next level. Get ready to visualise your success and make it a reality! (Link to join in bio!)

#berlin #daliimmersiveexperience #visionboardworkshop #assertiveness #creatingyourreality #beyourself #holisticcoaching #confidencecoaching #femaleentrepreneurlife #womeninbusinessuk

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